Looking back I can say that it’s been perfect the way it was.
Not being able to do the exposition in the way we had it in mind gave an even deeper and more truthful experience. Being
looked at from the outside as if I was a sex worker (which of course I
was in their eyes), was a super intense, edgy and powerful experience.The
biggest challenge for me was to feel comfortable in my own skin in this
unusual environment. The first thing I had to let go was to mind what
other people think about me. I kept on telling myself – I
know who I am. I know why I am here and I know why I’m doing this. And
that’s what matters. Not the stories other people create about me
without knowing anything about my past or my intentions.In the moment I was at peace with myself I could dare to make real contact without any awkwardness, shame or guilt.Even
though I’ve had many small, meaningful moments of connection through
the window, for quite a while no one dared to actually come in. And you
know what I’ve noticed with surprise – the men passing by were as
insecure as I was about making the next move. After I had
seen one man passing by my window several times being clearly interested
in me I opened the door a tiny little bit, smiled at him and said, ‘hey
you, you look like you would like to come in for an experience.’
Instead of having the regular talk that would have to happen at that
point about pricing and options, I briefly shared with him the idea
behind the slow sex experience pop-up. He said that he was on his way to
the station which is right behind the Red Light District. The way I was
looking straight into his eyes, right into his soul had such an impact
on him that he was finding himself taking one round after the other in
order to catch my gaze again and again and again to see whether the
magic would still be there.When I closed the door behind us
my friends that were standing outside got really worried they told me
afterwards. Now it has become real. The first slow sex experience that
has ever happened in the Red Light District was about to take place.
The feedback was absolutely mind blowing and exceeded all my expectations.From
around 3pm on until the end, I had pretty much one customer after the
other. People were standing in line, having to take rounds while they
were waiting to get their turn.Just before the end of my
first shift as a slow sex worker, I had to send people away cause there
was no more time left to recieve all of them.There is
definitely a demand for a different kind of sexual experience that goes
beyond the regular in-and-out, blow job business most people come for
simply because they don’t know that there are other ways…Would I do it again?Oh yes, absolutely!That was just the beginning of a new kind of revolution.Follow Slow Sex Experience on Instagram and you’ll be informed about the next one happening.